Ok, time for the anecdotal, well I've crashed hunners o' times and my carbon bike is still fine, they MUST be better...
Well, not hunners of times, but I have been hit by a car on my carbon Cervelo, and by another cyclist. Both times the bike went bouncing down the road ahead of me after the impact (carbon does make a horrible noise as it bounces!), and the bike is still OK - I did have it professionally checked after the car hit me.
In terms of longevity, the frame and forks are the 2008 model, and they have outlived all of the other components on the bike which have been replaced at least twice. The bike has done well over 10,000 commuting miles, but has now been retired, and is now my weekend mid life crisis bike ;)
One thing that is a little worrying is that on the inside of the rear chainstays on both sides there has been some wheel rubbing over time, and that has worn through the paint, and left little black indents in the carbon there. I did ask the bikeworks about this issue a year ago, and they didn't think it was an issue.. "I wouldn't worry too much about it, there's plenty of material around that area" they said.
Although I'm obviously not too worried about it as I rode it down the hill in the Dalmeny estate at over 30mph this morning. :-D