Resurrecting this old thread as it seemed the most appropriate place for an anecdote.
Took my seven year old daughter to a kid's birthday party on the tagalong yesterday. We had great fun climbing steep hills then whizzing down the other side (Willowbrae environs great for climbing and descending training).
After an enjoyable party, we were some of the last to leave. As we got ready, the mother of the birthday girl came out to send us off. I was helping my daughter on with her helmet, then proceeded to climb aboard myself, lidless.
Birthday mother: "You're not wearing a helmet?" (Shocked)
Me: "No"
Birthday mother: "Why not?" (Disapproving stare)
Me: "I don't need one."
Birthday mother: (Very judgmental expression)
Me: "I've been cycling since I was 13 years old. When I was young, nobody wore a helmet. The fashion for helmets started sometime in the nineties: I only regularly wore a helmet from the late nineties to the mid-zeroes. I'll be 50 next year. I'm still here..."
Birthday mother: "Hmmm..." (Incredulous look)
We departed on the deserted residential street, and safely made our way home.
Yet another encounter with someone (this time a friend) who does not cycle, and thinks I ought to be wearing a helmet. I couldn't be bothered rehearsing all the arguments about drivers not wearing helmets, neck injuries caused by helmets, etc. My own obvious lack of serious head injuries seemed argument enough...
(Though for the avoidance of doubt, if I am cycling "fast" for long distances e.g.. an audax, I do wear a helmet. Again this was too nuanced to bother with during the conversation above).