Flags and labels.
I'm not a Nationalist. I don't think I am a nationalist
I have a British passport. If I could have chosen a Scottish one last time I renewed it I would have.
I don't hate Britain - even less do I hate England/the English/people who live in England (after all both my children currently live there!)
It's easy to be uncomfortable with "Britishness" - the National Front, the Orange Order, but those are minorities who should perhaps be ignored or pitied.
The idea of 'rejoicing' for 'British victory in the Falklands' was just another reason for disliking a State that expected people to 'wrap themselves in the flag' unquestionably.
The British State involved itself in Iraq - but certainly not with the wholehearted support of people in Britain/UK/England/Scotland.
Once the English flag seemed to 'belong' to rightists and football hooligans, but it has been reclaimed by people in England - including football supporters.
The Union Flag was (to some extent) reclaimed - certainly rebranded - courtesy of the Olympics: The London Olympics.
Team GB united the UK - or do I mean GB??
But it also highlighted how well London does when there is money to be spent.
The Commonwealth Games in Glasgow certainly showed that fantasy fears that 'the English team will be booed' were just misguided misunderstandings - or perhaps a deliberate attempt at sowing discord.
Certainly the presence of Union/GB flags was curious - or just an example of the contradictions and confusions that inhabit these islands.
Clearly the Referendum means different things to different people (on both 'sides').
No-one will get precisely what they want - whether that's the land of milk and honey or EnclaveScotland or the 'Britain' of 1945 or 2013 (other dates are available).
Perhaps - in 10 years time or so - there will be a body that issues (British) passports to anyone born, or living, in some of the islands off the coast of Europe.
Or perhaps we'll all be European - or even world - citizens, and microchipped accordingly!