I'm just getting into wheelbuilding, and I've been reading the excellent Roger Musson guide, among the things he mentions is that any internet discussion regarding the theory or practice of the art is going to throw up all manner of disagreement.
Double butted vs plaingauge, from my (limited) understanding, it's very little to do with weight, and everything to do with durability. The thinner middle section allows the spoke to stretch more and share the load with neighboring spokes thus actually improving strength and fatigue resistance, somewhat counter-intuitively.
This is also the first I've read of 'minimal' tensioning, basically every source I've come across holds that the spokes should be pretty tight, or at the least not ever approaching loose.
These days (certainly for mountain bike use) strength is more important than slight weight saving.
Never underestimate the determination of a weight weenie, though they are less common on the dirty side of cycling.
Mtb wheels are funny things. They get used with very wide tyres and very low pressures, with suspension, so with any halfway decent rider that can unweight over the worst bumps they are probably seeing much less stress than a 23c road wheel that has to deal with typical Edinburgh streets full of cobbles, potholes and kerbs etc. On the other hand, when you get a bit too ambitious offroad, the wheels tend to be the first thing to collapse. Classics include: Landing sideways (crunch), landing onto a sharp edged rock or root (clang), having the mech get bashed into the spokes with predictable consequences (mostly including uttering of bad words).
So you get this weird situation where you're not really worrying about long term fatigue life, because it's very unlikely the spokes are going to give out before the rim gets permanently damaged, but you are worrying that the wheel will go from totally fine to totally totalled in a split second. Example:
This guy was landing from a jump and came down on his front wheel (bad) with it angled (very bad), the result being the wheel getting tucked under the front of the bike and him getting catapulted over the bars. That's beyond the help of any amount of spoke key wizardry I think.