@gembo - I have no facts on this, however my understanding (really just an opinion based on what I've been able to pick up) is as follows:
1) Dutch people are just people, and as likely to object to change just because it's change as anyone else. Therefore there will be some NIMBY stuff even there - I've heard of this happening.
2) I understand that there are also plenty of people who are able to apply logic, and who can see that most of their customers are using bicycles, and therefore they respond sensibly. I hear of people wanting good infra for cycling, because it'll bring customers their way.
The issue for us - as for others working on other kinds of big social change - is getting over the middle ground... If our shop keepers aren't also people who cycle, or who shop in local shops, then it's going to be much more difficult to persuade them...
3) Some of what we're facing isn't anything to do with either point above. We have a system which supports the survival of SOME local shops through passing trade in vehicles. Most will depend on locals, but SOME will depend on illegal parking - just popping in for a sandwich trade. If we don't go far enough - just adding cycle lanes to the main road, not also supporting locals to walk the shops, and not doing much to actually improve the overall area so it's nice to be in, then it's fair enough for those shops to fight the change because it will disadvantage them. But the solution is to do better, to fight for proper improvements to an overall area, not just to fight for infra which supports cycling.
At least that's what's in my head...