I had a very depressing morning cycling through town with my 4 year old on the follow-me attachment. It's made me really upset and doubting myself quite a lot - I cycle everywhere with both kids and usually it's a brilliant experience but today was awful.
However - in all 3 incidents below, I may well be also to blame - I may have made bad decisions. I would welcome criticism. Unfortunately I find it very difficult to keep my cool when people threaten my children so I may have said one bad word, but I leave my part of the "conversations" in since it doesn't show me in a good light and I should really learn to engage in this way.
First one looks harmless but was insanely close to my daughter as she passed and gave me a look as if to say it way my fault:
Second one - also looks benign but it really wasn't. I was coming along George IV bridge and was about to overtake the parked car and was indicating right and looking over my shoulder for some time. I had to abort as it was clear the car that passed me wasn't stopping and I wasn't willing to put my daughter between him and me - had I been on my own I would have been more assertive about taking the centre of the right hand lane. When I said to him that I was indicating right his response was that "I didn't have right of way".
The third one is trickier - coming to cross Princes Street at the bottom of the mound the lights are red so I make my way up a large gap on the inside to try and get to the ASL. Had the lights been green I would have taken a place in the queue. The lights change on my way, I am up to the tour bus as it starts to move off and so *Technically* I am undertaking him as we go up to cross Princes Street. He takes objection to this and pulls in on me on Hanover street shouting something I can't hear. He tells me that I shouldn't take the cycle lane through the lights or something - I'm not sure I understand. The cars in the queue were stationary so at what point do I stop filtering - or what he calls "undertaking". I realise I could have done all this better and dealt with it all better.