The left hook from a white van man [elliott services] who left hooked me to access craigleith retail park as I was cycling past the opening.
He'd be going nowhere, so I followed him in. And around the car park a wee bit. He then stopped, and I challenged him ... no swearies were exchanged, but my anger dissipated very quickly, because he honestly seemed to believe he "was past" me - and didn't get angry himself. In theory he was past me, if it was a photographic finish to some imaginary line, but the tail end of his van was most definitely not past me.
So I was left feeling you can't win;
- get into a full-blown two-way angry confrontation, and the driver will just increase his antipathy towards cyclist.
- get into a short-lived one-sided angry confrontation, and chances are the mild-mannered driver will still believe he did nothing wrong, but will increase (or beging) his negative perception of cyclist.